Since we are all egocentric by nature and without which we couldn't survive as a species, we have got to always Think One Step Ahead. So think how stepping outside of yourself and putting yourself in someone else's shoes can help you become a winner in a sticky situation.
For example, if you found yourself unable to remember what today's date signifies (after your spouse has made it clear it is, in fact, an important day), but you know that should you guess wrong, you'll upset your partner, try not saying anything at all. Sometimes, the best way to get out of a sticky situation is by exuding more mystery and less talk.
This will give you a way to buy some time and allow your partner think that you know what the important date is or what the answer to the important question may be. You're not lying, and you're not misleading your partner either. Instead, you're allowing yourself to use your body language to eliminate disagreement over a hot topic.
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