Worry
normally paralyses you into a state of guilt, regret or getting stuck in the
past or things that may happen in the future. You may worry about everything from
your current financial state, job, domestics and relationships, to the weather
or anything that affects your lifestyle. Worry normally comes in two types, productive
and unproductive. The unproductive worry consists of problems you have no
control over. For example, you may be worried about a nuclear war. There’s
nothing you can do about it, so it’s a waste of time and very unproductive to
worry about it. Productive worry involves a situation you can control, such as
meeting an important deadline.
You may be
anxious about getting the work done on time, but sitting on the couch worrying
about it doesn’t help. You can make that worry productive by planning what you
can do to meet the deadline and then taking action.You may need to empty your
mind of all negative thoughts before you can become productive. And one way to
clear your mind is to write down your worries and analyse. Your anxiety will
likely recede when you can focus only on the task at hand and leave the clutter
in your mind behind. Sometimes, anxiety can become an energy booster because of
the definite adrenaline rush you experience when you’re anxious; and when you
focus that energy on being productive, your performance is enhanced.
As you begin
to control your worry patterns and work through them, you’ll build resilience
so that you can face future circumstances with confidence If you become
panicked about a situation, it may be best to get your mind off of it for a while
to read a book, take a walk or do something to help clear your mind. Giving
yourself a break from whatever is stressing you out is also a productive step
you can take and the task will become much easier when you return to it. Transforming
worrying into productivity takes practice, but when you master the technique,
you’ll be amazed at how you can mentally pull yourself out of a stressful
situation and get back to solving the worrisome situation in a rational and productive
way.
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